I recently had this discussion with one of my clients and thought it was valuable and wanted to share it with everyone.

It was about being in a negative environment and how to deal with not being able to move out of it physically.

This was my response…People will respond to a forceful or negative approach with an equally negative response because it is a natural reaction to protect oneself in response to being challenged. 

But if you approach people with a positive and loving approach,  they will respond more openly to your vibration because it is one of love and light.   

In other words you will receive back what you send out… just as The Secret” teaches.

This has been extremely helpful in my relationships with those who don’t believe in what I do. 

I have been against many negative energies in the past 12 years because of doing what I do, and I have found that holding a high vibration of Love and Light is truly the most powerful tool and the most healing state one can be in

So it is helpful to… after our initial moment of reaction to the situation… to catch oneself and remember to find peace in the knowing that all things are as they should be…. and everyone is doing exactly what they need to do along their own path. To be able to stay in this frame of mind is truly the most powerful way one can be… and in that power you find peace. True power does not need to react, confront or boast of itself.   Of course I am still working on this, because I am still human : ) but it is helpful when I do catch myself, and the more often I do, the more I am able to master. It took me a while to really resonate in that knowing…. but it has proven to me to be true. I also gave it some deep thought and I also think and have found from my own experience that while it can be helpful to be able to physically move into a place that provides peace and a sanctuary for healing… the challenges that life brings to us to experience, are gifts for us to become who we came to be. I have found that those “negative“ experiences gave me tools to become who I am now… and continue to be… had I not had the challenges I did, I would not be able to do what I do now. Recently, I am extremely overworked, overwhelmed and overstressed, but I realize on a deeper level that I need to be in this situation to learn how to become stronger, and to explore ways to deal with the challenges.When I look at the challenges in this way, with an openness to allow opportunities to enter into my life to help me… the Angels come to help, and step by step I manage to keep going and learn and evolve and gain wisdom from the experience.

So…. you may find that it is not peace that you need… and that the situations you need to help you to learn from in order to help you become stronger, may follow you even if you physically move.

It may help to consider that the possibly in some way the situation you have somehow chosen to live in is also providing an incredible learning and a place to actually practice becoming stronger in your spirituality.

I suggest that in times of stress and challenge you meditate or pray or whatever works for you to give you moments of peace… and in those moments be open to receiving help and it will come.